Emotions have only a limited value in aviation. Logic and pragmatism rule the day. I’m a retired FAA Center Controller with previous military experience and a commercial, IFR, instructor rated pilot. We were always ‘advised’ wink to make control decisions, as much as possible, without no reliance on emotions. Emotions are not your friend when quick, logical, no b.s. decisions need to be made. The same applies in the cockpit. Emotional Intelligence also means knowing when NOT to be emotional.