The larger problem with all of this is the inability to discuss things that are in the realm of possibility without falling into absolutes.
In a culture of judgment the absolutes dominate followed by the dismiss. Once one is judged by the system the game is over. YOU! You have crossed a non repairable, unforgivable line! Dismissed. Berried. Bye, bye.
As hard as it is to admit, yes, it is cultural.